Reevive Club

By the way this question can be asked at any age, any generation, by anyone and anybody. And most of an times the “Answer” differs, everyone have their own definition and experiences to justify this question. But this author knows 1 universal answer for the my dearest readers that may give them heartfelt satisfaction, coz this author witnessed people finding logic in Love but not Love.

I love the aroma of freshly brewed coffee and gentle music in cafes that sets the mood to romanticize your life here and there a little, so the same happened last Sunday, when my dearest foreign friend Carl asked me : ‘So Ayushi, earlier you said that relationship are hard now a day, it will make you fear loving someone“, so, what should we do then?

Maybe Lady Gaga, explained us a lot about Poker Face, but some moments make us experience those famous lyrics. I felt the same, but this time i poured my heart wide open to this foreign man.

Me : Carl, you know what? Relationship is all about a lot of work, it’s not easy, it’s not simple, some find maturity as hallmark of relationship, some finds it growing up together like child to teenager, teenager to adults, adults to old; some believe it’s all about responsibilities and duties, some treat it like a business deal ‘ who will take care of what, and will deal with what’ . In all sense we look for different types of logics that “Okay, we need and required this, this, and this and here we’re done” but nobody tries to fill that one missing part of the puzzle which is Love.

I find love so easy, coz it gives you no reason to adore someone, to nourish and nurture, it doesn’t need no logic, no calculation, no reasoning, no strategizing, it’s just need two people who are so found of each other. And that enough for worldly worries that is created by the cloud of inexperienced experiences.

We Just Need Each Other

No doubts us humans are social animals and bounded to live in Society under various “Social Contracts” as Thomas Hobbes, John Locke and Jeans Jacques Rousseau introduced us with but Charles Darwin, Peter Salavoy and John Mayer discovered that “WE” humans are highly emotionally intelligent beings, we feel 100% of our selves when we are nurtured, cared, felt, heard, touched, and accepted. I believe all these senses driven elements triggers love, when you just know that ‘Yes’ you are mine and you’re enough.

But why you and me runs aways and include everybody else with us? Oh, we know, we know, “Those inexperienced experiences of “What If?”, about Family, Finances, Failures, Society, and Fear of unknown. Yes we fears them all without even experiencing them. But let me tell you my love, One needs courage to love, and one who cannot love, they never been loved.

It’s victory It’s Glory

Love Is Like Seasons, We Should Find Joy Not Perspectives

We all love that excitement of changing weather and preparing for it, my favorite is the time around Christmas, those cold air in my balcony, Marshmalow Chocolate Milk, dim lights around the streets and Christmas Tree in my hallway through December to February.

This Author also have Cold allergy issues, and lethargy when winter season starts to approach, but she knows how to prepare for those hard, harsh, cold days of the season.

This is all it takes to be together, how we deal and prepare for those harsh seasons, being together as Lovers, “YES” you heard me right “LOVERS”, needs power to feel every seasons of love, Cold like Winters, Delighted like Spring, Hot and Humid like Summers, Sensual like Monsoon and Transitional like Autumn.

Rachel and Harry Felt the Seasons Better

Once upon a time, Rachel and Harry were in Love, they use to love walking in garden, Harry was so found of Greenery of that Garden it always gave him eternal joy, something so soothing to his eyes. Rachel was no different than Harry, that’s what made them like beautiful Swans of Lake. But nature waits for no one she changes for better for worst, and us human prepares for natures. After few month Autumn approached “The Golden Season for Lovers”, Rachel was so ready for a new season walk but Harry seems to have no muse for his favorite Garden Walk. So, Rachel, asked “What’s the Matter My Love?”, Harry took a sigh and said “I find no joy now walking out there in Garden, leaves are dried and dead lying on the Ground, Trees looks barren and dark, Air is lacking moisture”, “This is something that doesn’t makes me Happy, if willing for a walk you can dear, but i can’t maybe next springs”

Rachel took a walk in that Garden “Alone”, it gave her same Joy as Springs, she was so mesmerized by this transitional season of Earth, because she knew that these dead leaves shows Rebirth, those shredded Trees represents symbols of truth—showing us that beauty is not only in bloom, but in the courage to stand bare, unmasked, and patient in the face of time. Those Dry air is the whisper of stillness, carrying the scent of endings and the hush before life begins again.

Rachel seen beauty in every change, but Harry with his first experience of Autumn felt dull. That cleary shows that what “Ones Perspective” do to our lives.

Rachel walked back home and told Harry to move back to his motherland, coz as Rachel felt the season deeply she also felt the “Perception of Harry”, she was afraid that Harry will never find Joy of changing weather and will accept the transition, maybe he only loves that one season of Spring, when grass is green, flowers are blooming, birds are chirping. As i said, Cold like Winters, Delighted like Spring, Hot and Humid like Summers, Sensual like Monsoon and Transitional like Autumn, that all it takes to be together.

So are We Soulmates? Yes.

It Takes Two Make Happily Ever After

I believe this Author made it clear through many stories and ideas, that one cannot find and be in Love when they become ‘Logical’. When you will find Love, you find no reason for it, its just you two.

I find no reason to love you, I just Love you